Relationships, especially long-term ones, always need infusions of out-of-the-ordinary. When my students ask me what they can do, I tell them to use their creative imagination, but sometimes they want some suggestions to jumpstart the process.
A friend of mine in her seventies whose husband died many years ago emailed me a list of her thoughts on what made she and her husband feel loved. Here are some of her pearls of wisdom – To honor your partner is to be reminded of your own worthiness. We all have conditions that […]
Porn has come out of the closet; it’s no longer wrapped in plain brown paper. It’s visible in our living rooms, readily available via the internet. It’s becoming more normalized because pornography is big business – 8 billion dollars in the US alone, 13 billion worldwide.
Pornography can either help your sexual liberation or stunt it. It’s your responsibility to be aware of whether erotic material is enhancing or destroying your life.
The million dollar question is: Can you have fantastic sex in a long-term committed relationship? With the predictability of a partner you’ve known for years, can there still be surprise? Is it possible to reconcile your longing for reliability and adventure in a monogamous relationship?