Couples waste their time trying to figure out each other; it’s just not possible and not necessary in order to love someone. Your partner will never be like you. Stop trying to coerce her or him into thinking like you, into agreeing that you’ve got the answer about how to live life.
One of the deadliest myths for long-term relationships is thinking that you will become one with your partner. Consider what “Love is…” What you write might surprise you
It might be difficult to realize that you have vindictive and malicious feelings toward your partner, the one you’re supposed to love the most. Hatred isn’t the dark side, but denying its existence is.