I’ve touched on this topic in my blogs by describing an affair as a theft, a criminal act. When you have a surreptitious affair while you’re still in a committed monogamous relationship, you have committed a crime against your personal integrity as well against your partner from whom you’ve stolen choices. Most people committing adultery […]
Modern technology is forcing humans to become like robots. For the moment, we still are 100% human, and we need daily contact with each other, especially our mates. Don’t be seduced by everything that is high tech and gimmicky.
It might not be obvious that your partner is your equal. You and your partner may be from different socio-economic backgrounds, have different levels of education and experiences, different ways you were brought up and different genders, but you are equal psychologically. Otherwise, you wouldn’t stay with each other.
This is how to make emotional contact with your partner – in good and bad times. Looking at each other is a powerful exercise that you and your partner can do in and out of the bedroom. This is not about staring, but about really looking at someone you love and letting yourself be seen.
The essence of homemade love poetry oozes specialness. It’s like having a song written just for you. Fortunately, you don’t have to write the music, only the lyrics to turn your partner on, and you don’t even have to be good at it, so long as it’s heartfelt. Read a couple of examples of homespun love poetry.